Superman doesn’t exist
in real life, a man can perhaps come as close as eighty percent in terms of
1. Sexual Performance issues ---A couple is normally excited at the onset of
the dating game. They want to spend as much time as possible together, getting
to know each other and building towards a sexual relationship. For some men,
getting the woman into bed is the ultimate aim, they can barely contain their
curiousity to find out what it’s like to make love to her. Women also spend
time excitedly anticipating that moment especially if she’s really into the
man. The high she’s on can come crashing down however, if they finally get
intimate and she discovers that the
reality of the experience is very far from what she envisioned. This can either
be a matter of medically related sexual performance problems, disappointment
with the size of his penis or disappointment with his skills as a lover. If you
have a sexual inadequacy problem, be honest with her and tell her before you
become intimate. It’s better to give her the opportunity to mentally prepare
and be pleasantly surprised that you performed better than expected. If you
know you have medically related performance issues, don’t exaggerate sexual
skills you do not have, as this will come back to haunt you when the moment of
reckoning comes and you are unable to deliver. A woman knows a man takes his
ability to perform sexually very seriously, so sharing her dissatisfaction is
not something a lot of women are comfortable doing. An outspoken woman might be
frank with you but another woman might prefer to slowly pull away and spare you
the blow of admitting that your penis size is an issue for her or she’s not
happy with the way you perform.
2. When he’s tight with money—Most women anticipate that their man will
assist them financially if necessary. Don’t be fooled by the fact that she
doesn’t ask you to help her. She’s probably hoping you will offer so don’t take
her not asking as a sign that she’s OK with you not giving. Despite popular
perception that there are too many beggy, beggy women, there are also women who
are not comfortable asking a man for anything. They will accept if you offer
and in some cases they expect you to offer without them having to ask. It’s
better to offer your woman a gift and have her refuse it than to withhold
assistance because you think she’s OK. Some men are hesitant to approach a
woman they like if they are not in a financial position to date her. They
probably cannot afford to take her out or buy her gifts but not every woman judges
a man by his current situation. Some women observe your intentions and ambition
so taking even a fruit to her each time you go to see her, shows her that you
mean her well. Men, this is not about women wanting to dig out your pockets,
choose wisely the woman you allow into your life and treat her well. When a man
fails to take care of his lady’s needs, he leaves the door open for another man
to come in and offer to do what he isn’t doing. Don’t allow your woman to be
tempted because you are failing to take care of her needs. Depending on her
personality, some women will be frank and tell a man that he is mean, but
others will simply back away from a man once they discover that he’s not inclined
to provide any financial support to her.
3. Poor hygiene—There are men who take hygiene seriously. They like to look and
feel clean. But there are others who simply do not take the time to ensure they
are clean, smelling good and attractive for their women. Shaving, brushing
teeth regularly, flossing and using deodorant are some of the little things
that make a man a pleasure to get intimate with. A woman might like a man but
does not like his hygiene practices and telling someone to step up on their
hygiene is often one of the most difficult things for a person to do. If the
relationship is new, it is highly unlikely that a woman will want to tell a man
she isn’t happy with his hygiene. He perhaps has to look for subtle signals
like her buying him deodorant, a special toothpaste,etc. But not every woman
has the patience to deal with a man who does not practice good hygiene. Once
she realizes he’s lacking in that department, she might slowly back away
without an explanation. If you meet a woman, take note of how she carries
herself, observe how she keeps her surroundings and this will give you subtle
hints of how seriously she takes hygiene. You can then improve your own hygiene
practices rather than wait for her to either tell you to step it up or pull a
disappearing act.
4. Cowardly behaviour- Most women want a man who makes them feel safe. They want to
know he will step up and protect them as necessary and this is not just
physical protection but emotionally, she wants a man who shows empathy, cares
about her feelings, is mentally strong, solutions oriented and assertive. When
a man displays cowardly behavior around a woman, especially one he is just
getting to know, this can be a major turn off. If he takes her on a date, he
should ensure she feels safe with him. If they come under any kind of attack,
his first instinct should be to ensure he protects her from harm, not run away
to save himself and leave her in harm’s way. For a woman, her man is her knight
in shining armour, she expects him to love and protect her, and to have her
best interest at heart. If a woman doesn’t feel that kind of confidence in a
man who’s courting her, she might not stick around, unless her interest is
dependent on what he can do for her financially.
5. Secret Sexual orientation- Today, more men are openly gay or bisexual
and there are women who knowingly marry gay and bisexual men. However, not
every woman is OK with a man who is gay or bisexual. If this type of woman gets
the slightest suspicion that the man she is with is secretly gay or bisexual,
she might disappear without another word to him. One reason for this is the
shame she feels about competing with another man for her man’s affections. It
can leave her feeling very demoralized and damage her self esteem.
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